Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Bottom line about underwear

A while back, I was asked to write about my opinion on women wearing "sexy" underwear - just for themselves.

Why not, right?
My take, which may come as no surprise to anyone, is that anything a woman does to make herself feel sexy or beautiful should always be done for herself. Yes, if you're in a relationship and someone is going to see (and admire) your undies, it's fabulous if he'll like them, too. (Though, the results of an embarrassingly unscientific pole poll [Thanks, John!] show that most men don't really care; they're more interested in what the material is covering.) 

"So if the guy doesn't care - why bother?"
"But if there is no guy to impress - why go to the trouble?"

...Are the questions most women normally ask.

My answer? Self-esteem begins and ends with you doing things for you. If it makes you feel good to wear lacy underwear and a matching bra - do it. If wearing a thong makes you feel more sexy - go for it.

The thing is - the more sexy and beautiful you feel, the more confident you'll be. The more confident you are, the more comfortable and at ease you'll be. If your goal is to find a guy to admire that lacy thong, this is the first step. What guy wouldn't want to be around a confident, comfortable woman?

Only one that isn't worth your time in the first place.


  1. 1) I think you meant unscientific poll, not pole.

    2) This post is awesome and I disagree with the poll, I love what the material is covering but I also love a woman who wants to be sexy for her man, or herself.

  2. Angela - Thanks, lady!

    John - I stand corrected. Poll, not pole. Oy! *embarrassed facepalm*

    I bet a lot of smart, decent guys feel the same as you. Like I said - my poll was unscientific. Friends messing me could totally have skewed my results. :)

  3. I'm not sure if that makes me a smart decent guy or a dumb indecent guy. Probably a bit of both depending on the day.

  4. John - both is good. Too much of one thing is boring. :)