tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post706618525081878588..comments2023-10-23T16:05:15.619-04:00Comments on Not the Life I Ordered....: Get what you deserveSue Rockhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09495983573732369746noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-76076513787377133452020-02-12T23:41:47.783-05:002020-02-12T23:41:47.783-05:00Best Corporate Video Production Company in Bangalo...Best Corporate Video Production Company in Bangalore and top Explainer Video Company, 3d, 2d Animation Video Makers in Chennai<br />Awesome article. good read blog. Thanks for sharing<br />villagetalkieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17699647469618573676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-27808482323765345772011-02-04T13:46:22.941-05:002011-02-04T13:46:22.941-05:00Anonymous - it does (and thank you!). You get what...Anonymous - it does (and thank you!). You get what you give. If you're giving better, you deserve better, too. You can still give someone a break - maybe it is "normal" for them, or they don't know any better. Doesn't mean you have to be a part of it, though. Ya know? :)Sue Rockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09495983573732369746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-90287277991377510932011-02-02T01:06:01.361-05:002011-02-02T01:06:01.361-05:00Love this post for a number of reasons....mainly t...Love this post for a number of reasons....mainly this: I grew up in a hyper judgmental family and as a result am constantly giving people breaks...I don't want to pass judgment about someone's personality, actions, etc... even when it comes to their behavior with me, since we all have different ways we handle emotions. I am at war with myself most of the time because of it...should I let their behavior slide (and who the hell am I to make commentary) or am I making excuses because I don't want to demand better?<br />Then I read your line, "I give better than this, and I deserve better in return." Wow. That really sums it up, doesn't it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-2456260082799602712011-01-31T13:51:05.475-05:002011-01-31T13:51:05.475-05:00I was in the "it was all him" camp for a...I was in the "it was all him" camp for a long while before I finally realized that it takes two to break (and make) any relationship. <br /><br />I get frustrated with exes who say it was all me. Equally as frustrating are friends who blame others for what's wrong in their life. Could be a partner or family or whatever - it's always someone else's fault that things are the way they are.<br /><br />Eventually, we all have to grow up and realize that we play a part in whatever's gone wrong in our life. Blaming others is just a way to hide from the truth.Sue Rockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09495983573732369746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-59653707243640898052011-01-31T12:17:10.072-05:002011-01-31T12:17:10.072-05:00I used to be in the "it was all her fault&quo...I used to be in the "it was all her fault" camp. Then I realized that, for a myriad of reasons, it just wasn't meant to be with ex X, Y, and Z. Now that I'm a bit older, I can look back and see it was never just one-sided, that in many cases, I contributed to the demise of a relationship. I also try to remember exes as not just "psychos" but for their good qualities as well.Randyhttp://randyhoward.infonoreply@blogger.com