tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post345634264218609431..comments2023-10-23T16:05:15.619-04:00Comments on Not the Life I Ordered....: No wait requiredSue Rockhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09495983573732369746noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-8867617338486749952011-01-25T16:32:09.599-05:002011-01-25T16:32:09.599-05:00You're stronger than I am.You're stronger than I am.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-37345849238869132942011-01-25T15:13:19.235-05:002011-01-25T15:13:19.235-05:00"Is it possible to forgive and still think th..."Is it possible to forgive and still think the person in question is a horrible terrible person or douche bag?"<br /><br />I don't see why not. Some people aren't nice, plain and simple. So, get them out of your life ASAP - and send your anger with them. Will you be friends? Probably not. But you can still forgive the hurt, and move on. <br /><br />I also think you can forgive someone, but not forget the thing they did. For example - my heart was broken. I forgave him and let it go. I still consider him a friend - but I'd never give him the chance to do that to me again. I decided he was a good person who made a mistake and deserved another chance.<br /><br />If you don't find a way to let whatever happened go, and just say, "It's over, it happened, it's okay now," anger will eat you up. You'll spend all your energy trying to right the wrong, teach that person a lesson - and for nothing. You just end up punishing yourself.Sue Rockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09495983573732369746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7939165368430334769.post-2726556070512335752011-01-25T13:21:06.613-05:002011-01-25T13:21:06.613-05:00Very good point. It's unlikely the person that...Very good point. It's unlikely the person that hurt you even really cares that they did so why carry that with you? You're only hurting yourself.<br /><br />Is it possible to forgive and still think the person in question is a horrible terrible person or douche bag?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com